So last year during my pregnancy, my man was the only one working and I had a freelancing job so I'd only work like here and there. I saved up enough to pay some bills and got him a few things for Christmas. Some really thoughtful things. Well Christmas comes, and he didn't get me anything but saw what I got him and was like next year, I promise to get you something you'll enjoy.

Mother's day, birthday, all that came and went and I got nothing. I got him his favorite things on both fathers day and his birthday.

Now its Christmas, my son has things, my husband has things and I have nothing under the tree. He came home yesterday and was like sorry I didn't get you anything this year for Christmas. I smiled and just was like alright, but secretly I was dying inside. I don't want anything fancy...just even a thoughtful card would be nice....idk I feel weird saying something about it...but it really does hurt me knowing he didn't get me anything. The one time he did get me something, it was flowers and some cookies which he used my personal money for.....do I say something...how can I not be jerk about it....or am I just overreacting.

Let me also add, he is not hurting financially...but its not even money spent...I just want a note or a homemade dinner or a massage....SOMETHING