I have been with my fiancé for 4 years and we talked about having kids and I had to get off a lot of meds slowly to try to have a baby. One med caused me to have side effects after I stopped taking it and I am still working thru it it’s been almost 2 years but I heard it can go away after a few years. So it’s Christmas and he says wish we could have kids to share this with and when are you going to give me kids. I’m so tired of him asking me and other ppl asking me bc I am still healing and it’s a process and he doesn’t understand that and he was blaming me for not researching the med before taking it but I was sick when the doctor gave it to me. So this is just hard and what if I never get better and can’t have kids? We going to break up? He just really bothers me and I’m tired of it bc doesn’t he know I want kids too and he’s not considering how I’m feeling.