Did you ovulate late? Serious question, I need help!

My cycle is currently 39 days long. I assumed I ovulated on the 9th. However I’m getting negatives back to back, yet I’m CD 43 and day 4 of no af.

My symptoms are worsening. Today my nausea has been horrible. I’m getting motion sickness. I’m peeing like no other. I could go on and on about what I continue to experience. But I’m both losing hope and staying optimistic.

I believe I may have ovulated late. Missed my AF and I pray will get my BFP soon. But what should be soon? Tomorrow? A week from now?

I got a faint on the 23rd. Maybe it was a fluke on my first response? I called my new obgyn office because I got nervous. It’s been 3 years and I’d be high risk (more than 5 losses before 4/9/18 baby). They scheduled me for Wednesday to go in for confirmation based on my LMP of 11/14/2020. Should I still go? I know I jumped the gun but like I said, I freaked out and got overly nervous.

Do you ovulate late? Have you ovulated late? Did you miss your period still, due to the late ovulation and if so when did you end up getting your bfp?