If you're the one who has OCD, why am i supposed to be the one bending over backward because you have an actual mental disorder? That im supposed to clean something a certain way or not eat on the couch or keep things exactly where they belong ALL the time because it eases your OCD when what actually needs to happen is you getting some mental help???

Almost all the comments sound like they are from people who either a) have OCD themselves and have no idea how much of a burden they are to loved ones, or b) havent lived with someone that has it bad enough for it to definitely be emotional abuse, when you can literally not do anything right.