1 year old hates sleeping !??

He’s 15 months and we’ve successfully brought his nap down to 1 a day, at first it was going great. He’d wake up at 10, go for a nap at 2, wake up at 4, and go to bed at 10. With the new nap schedule he was actually getting more sleep at night then before but for the past week he’s decided to change his schedule up. He wakes up at 8:30-9:00 and takes a nap at 1, wakes up at 2 and goes to sleep at 10.

Is this normal? I thought he’d at least keep having 2 hour naps but now I feel like I don’t have time for anything. I actually have to leave him awake in his crib for 30ish minutes to get some food and take care of myself which he hates.

I’m exhausted and frustrated, and I’m sure some people will judge me for not giving him the regular 8:00 bed time but I have tried so hard in the past and he has always refused to go to bed earlier than 10, I have don’t cara babies classes as well. Trying to make bedtime earlier doesn’t work for him, and ultimately leaves everyone frustrated.