Okay I’ve been going through this infertility journey less time than most people on this app. We’ve been trying for 8’months and have had one loss.

Not a lot of people in my circle have had any trouble at all getting pregnant. I only have one friend who has had multiple losses and everyone else has easily healthy pregnancies and gets pregnant fast.

With that being said I tried to vent to a friend today who had a baby last week. Shes one who had sex once and had a healthy baby TWICE. She’s one of my best friends but her responses to my venting always leave me feeling worse.

This was a text she sent back asking her how it was fair that this girl we went to school with got pregnant on accident and this was her response.

I’m trying not to completely rage but for now I’m sobbing on my couch because no one ever says the “right” thing and I feel so alone and comments like these make me feel not validated.

Thanks for coming to my TED talk! And PSA if you ever need to vent and you have no one I AM HERE FOR YOU