Mum Issue no Happy New Year
As I expected my mum didn't even make the effort to even message a "Happy NY" I was the one saying Merry XMas first and makes contact. She messaged me beginning of the week to let her know how my Doc. has gone, which is a wait and see situation at the same time I told her LO was having a cold, no response how LO is. I think I'm going through a miscarriage at the moment and she hasn't bothered to check up on us. But she expects and demands that from me. I'm so angry and disappointed that she won't give me the same respect. When she gets angry, she keeps saying she's tired of sacrificing and done all the poop cleaning and making sure we are alright. I just go WTF, isn't this a job you signed up for when making kids, ensuring that they are taken care of? She becomes so depressive, toxic, negative and it's sometimes unbearable. She catches herself at times, where she says she needs to stop complaining.
She makes zero effort to be in my life and I guess if I don't call her up it can go on for weeks.
I have told her that she can't expect people to kiss her ass so she can feel important and she plays the victim by saying she's not the type to bother people!! We are family for goddsakes, I'm not sure if she lacks common sense or just miserable and indifferent.
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