I have a friend who married young and has 5 kids, mostly grown but one is 10.

To spare the details I'll just sum it up by saying her husband is not great. He's not abusive but also isn't a great partner and definitely takes her for granted. It's been that way for at least 10 years. She's had several candid conversations about how things need to change but he doesn't even try. He does struggle with chronic pain and mental health issues but none of that is an excuse in my opinion.

He's consistently unemployed so she supports the family. She confessed to me that she has had thoughts on infidelity with a coworker. They haven't done anything inappropriate yet but he makes her feel loved, cherished, and appreciated.

I'm the advice friend and for the first time in a long time I was at a loss for words. I just told her I would pray for her and suggested couples counceling but we both knew they couldn't afford that and he wouldn't attend anyway.

Does anyone have any advice I can pass on to her?

What about what specifically I can pray for?