In-law advice

So for Christmas we were thinking of buying our daughter a kitchen but decided to wait until she’s 2 instead. I told my sister in law this and she said “well my are parents still buying her one for Christmas”. It’s a nice gift but not the one I wanted for her. She’s our only girl and I’ve literally loved this kitchen since before I even knew I was having a girl. Would it be rude to still buy her the one I wanted in the future (my in laws take offense to nearly everything) but ugh, she’s our only girl and last baby and I love this kitchen for her ☹️