Irritating Husband

So my husband is on clomid and supposed to be working on getting his count that's zero up to something so we can have a kid he wants. Now I agreed to having a baby with him a few months after we got married. I did all my testing first and all normal. I take my vitamins I drink water I try to eat right. Now we are both active weed smokers but I told him a few days we should stop until his next SA. He decided he is going to smoke&drink beer. I'm fine with the beer once in a while but I told him the weed affects him more than me. He doesn't want to stop claims he is stressed 😑. He barely drinks water it's mostly pop and tea I'm tired of talking to a grown man I have my own kids to think about. If he wants kids he should do better.