Long rant
I'm torn. My fiance and I got in this big argument because he said oh my gosh and sounded disgusted of a male and female couple where the guy dressed like a girl and the guy a girl. And I said calm down its just highschoolers and who cares. And he said I care. I've noticed the past weeks especially when he drinks he makes a comment about gay men or how men act feminine and as we've discussed before. I have LGBTQ family and friends and its a touchy subject and we are both Christian and have spoken about our views and thoughts about that and I gave my opinion and he gave his. But he has continued to comment stuff and then says. It's wrong and in the Bible and God and he's entitled to his opinion but he coul never really understand how it feels to be in that position and not even me. And quite frankly it bothers me when he throws jabs and sounds disgusted almost every single time he sees a commercial or a movie, etc. And so he tried to let me know he's sorry and stopped because he'd never do or say that in person or someone near them. And when we argued I mentioned that these past couple of weeks its been bothering me and he told me to not stop saying how I felt on his account. So we were arguing back and forth and said. Well you seemed so bothered by this maybe you need to talk about this and reevaluate your belief, etc. And then he said if someone thinks or keeps saying oh its ok or basically not be the way he is and keep making comments and saying it's wrong . Then it's hypocrisy. I was so mad because he doesn't have a right to speak on anybody but himself and he has not right to try and say anything about my relationship with God or anybodies beliefs, choices, or anything for that matter. And I got so mad and I knew I should have stopped but I kept going because I would expect it from the world. But not my partner who's supposed to have boundaries. Its like he forgot that I don't like that stuff or maybe he just doesn't care. I don't hear him bickering about lesbian women or women acting "manly" or any other topics. And we kept arguing but I called his ex out of his name because I remember him always talking about her and how great she was,etc and he said he even stopped cursing around her. Boundaries, respect. And I shouldn't have brought her up or called her out of her name and he defended her of course 🙄 but I was just so mad and hurt that he's that kind of person and he brought something out of me that I don't like and my feelings get hurt everytime he does that and the fact that he knows where I stand and how I feel hurts. And it's every single time. It's not here and there but it's evrytime. And I honestly don't know what to do or tell him. But he was being a smart a** and a know it all and just out everything on me. And didn't even acknowledge how I felt. It is a me problem and I need to fix how I feel and I shouldn't be bothered and I. And then he told me he's done with this conversation and to leave him alone. Like I'm the only one and I'm just too much and how dare I. I'm venting and stuck . I get everyone is entitled to their opinions but this is excessive and really bothering me.
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