innocent bf advice

we’re both virgins, but he was a sheltered kid and i was... very much not. i was the kinda kid who’d read steamy fanfics in the back of the class. he’s fine with intimacy, he’s just really awkward and shy about it. we don’t plan to actually fuck(i definitely want to get on birth control if we do plan to), but i’m still very horny, very often. so i thought “hey, why not have some steamy texts? that’d be neat.” so i sent:

“i realllly wanna kiss you rn..”

bf:“when we can, we will”

“maybe i can give you a few pointers then😉”

bf: “k”

motherfuc- help me, i wanna be flirty but he doesn’t pick up hints and i’m not sure how to be direct without being the opposite of flirty.