I have two things that have been on my mind. First, My husband and I are new parents and it’s been a bit difficult to get intimate and this past weekend we tried but for some reason after I gave him some head he went soft. He then continued please me but I don’t understand why he went soft. Is it normal for a man who hasn’t had sex in awhile to get soft quickly? Is there something I should be doing?

Second question. My husband at times doesn’t climax. Is this normal? Is there anything I can do?

Thanks for the advice.