Should I be only one reaching out

My family is never the ones to call or text me and ask how the baby doing or just to say hi or anything. I’m always the one to call them or text them but when they want something they can call or txt me 🙄 I just feel like I’m so over always being the one to reach out to my siblings and mom to say hi or see how they doing and no one does that for me but I’m always willing to help them out when they call but I when I need a simple favor no one answers my call or text. For ex I asked my mom and my sis if one of them could give me two simple braids in my hair and I’d get them food neither of them responded but my sis asked me to take her kid some place 🙄 so I had to pay someone to do two simple braids ( yes I know as a 27 year old I should know how braid) I’m just so tired of feeling like I’m only useful to my family if they benefit from me.