It's been a while since I've talked about my divorce on here so I'll start with a recap.

My soon to be ex-husband said back in December of 2019 that he thought the baby was to much work, thought about putting him in foster care, was leaving the house for days because "it's my life and I'm going to live it how I want." leaving my son and I at the house with no car, no money, no phone, and sometimes no food. So I picked up and left. We tried couples counseling but at the 3rd session he said it was a waste of time and he's not coming back. I tried talking to him about being cordell for Collin but since our separation he's only seen his son a handful of times, the last time was September when we ran into him at a wedding, and visits only lasted an hour or two before he would say "I've had enough" and promptly leave. We looked into divorce together and he was okay until he realized it would cost money to file. So in October of 2020 got my own lawyer. November the paperwork was filed and of course he didn't respond. We had a court date set and he didn't show, he's now looking at jail time because he's more then 2,000 dollars behind on his child support. I've come to the point where I don't really care, that's his problem but I am afraid of how this is all going to effect my son in the future. Also when the divorce finally goes through it will be a big weight off my shoulders!

On the other hand I'm now a full time employee at a factory called Dana, I'll be able to get a new car by late March (as mine is on it's last legs) and talked to bank and will be able to get a mortgage lone for my own house by November! I'm moving forward and am so excited 😊 my son is such a happy little guy and incredibly smart! He stays with my dad while I'm at work and is always so excited to be with him ❤️ so despite our unfortunate start we're still living life and rocking every step of the way!

I appreciate all you guys for being such a support in all this