Is this a red flag? I’m scared to catch feelings again

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I met this guy about a month go and he is going wayyy too fast I feel like that’s a bad thing isn’t it?? I heard it was. 
I heard that’s a form of manipulation but I’m not sure. We’re teens by the way so I know he’s not “in love” with me lol 
He sends me paragraphs every day about how much he loves me and cares about me and idk something seems off because he doesn’t really KNOW me yet. I mean yeah we talk every day but he doesn’t know me. 
Like read this thing he send me earlier when he told me he loved me. I asked him why he thought he did and this is what he told me. 
“I’m in love with you because nobody has ever taken care of me and shown me love like you do and you make me so willing to do anything it would take for your love.” 
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Then he said this morning “Good morning baby girl you mean so much to me and you take the absolute best care of me. You make me so happy and make me feel so warm inside. Every day I get to wake up and say that you’re my girl and I belong to you and nothing else makes me happier. I can’t wait to have you in my arms lovebug” 
I really like him but I have such horrible trust issues and I always feel like people lie to me when they show a lot of interest due to my last toxic relationship that lasted about four years. 
Idk I’m just really confused. I like him a lot it’s just I’m very scared to get hurt. Seems too good to be true. 
He’s not really like other teenage boys which makes me want to believe him. He’s different in a way almost too mature for his age which freaks me out because I’m still childish. 
I just don’t understand why someone could love me. Like why ME? I’m literally nothing special.
We’re not dating yet btw

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Personally I feel like he’s doing too much way too fast, this would make me highly uncomfortable and I’d likely break up with him.

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It sounds like you have a lot of self doubts, and this relationship is gonna end in heartbreak unless something changes. And I mean mostly you. You need to decide if you actually want to be in a relationship or if you're just dragging this poor guy along for a ride. You need to deal with your issues first before getting in a solid relationship. "We're teens so I know its not really love" ummm, not necessarily. But its obvious you don't have real feelings for him. "Why me, I'm no one special" well, he thinks you are, and you need to quit trashing on yourself. Get yourself figured out, decide if you really want to be in a real relationship (it sounds like you dont), and for the love of God, quit stinging this guy along for the ride.

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There’s no set timing for a person to fall in love, and you shouldn’t feel pressured to reciprocate his affection towards you. BUT, you need to sit down and ask yourself, why do you like/love him? What is it about him that makes him stand out compared to the rest? Why him? If you’re doubting yourself and the relationship that’s not fair to you or him? And your trust issues are understandable, and clearly you have someone who will always be reassuring. He expresses love via words and that may just be his love language. But I’d say communicate how you feel with him. Talk to him and let him know that you’ve been in toxic relationships and are afraid to get hurt. If he loves you, he should understand why you feel the way you do. But please don’t let your past relationships define how this one may turn out. Trust your gut and communicate! Communication is crucial for individuals who have past trauma from previous toxic relationships. Let him in!! 
And since you both are teens, put yourself and your values first! If you think he is the one, then you need to put in the work!

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Yes red flag. It’s called love bombing. It’s been a month and he’s in love? I’m hoping this Isn’t online. It could be some Nigerian scammer. Things that seem too good to be true usually are. Things that happen fast end fast. Your gut is telling you something is wrong with the situation and it’s probably right. I would say look you are making me uncomfortable all of this happening way too fast. Sounds like a catfish. Walk away. They suck you in and know you are lonely and vulnerable. Walk away. Block and delete him.

Is this a red flag? I’m scared to catch feelings again

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