(No hate.) SO hi! to start off, I’ve wrote posts in the past about my situation in case anyone has read them before or has stumbled across those older posts.

(Little back story + details.)

Me & my fiancé are on the younger side, with our 4MO baby. We’re currently living with his family at their house. I can’t stand his mother, nor his whole family but his mother especially. We’ve been together 4 years & she’s always been off & odd since the beginning. He was a big mama’s boy & she was use to him always being around & her controlling his life basically. She would tell him he can’t see me without reasoning, force him into doing activities with them instead of going with me (mind you, he was only allowed to see me once a week.. without reason.)

Anyways so - she would rub his thigh in an off way that isn’t normal for a mother, ask him why he doesn’t treat her like that when he would give me attention & kisses & touches, would make him take inappropriate photos of her in bikini’s in the middle of the winter in the snow, tried to make him apply to work at her job, make him pose in photo’s with her holding her waist from behind (prom style pose) ALWAYS touch his thigh & put her hand on his thigh, spam him with calls & texts, tell him about her infidelity with co-workers

(odd in my opinion for a mother to tell her son about, mind you she IS still with his father - her husband.) it always seemed like a competition like she was trying to one up me although she is his mother..

I could continue but I’ll get to my point.

Once I was pregnant, she became even more weird towards me. She would touch my stomach & say things like “the baby is mine.” “He (her son) is my son so the baby is mine.”

“Are you going to give me the hospital paperwork for the baby could be mine?” (Which was a “joke” from her according to my fiancé.) - & my partner would tell me to ignore these comments from her. When he tried to correct HER from saying them, she still said them - even when the baby was born!!!!

“This is my baby” (she is crazy.)

- She’s done things like trying to get into his head & stray him away from the idea of us moving, & try to say things like “that far???” Or it being “not a good idea” - I’m convinced she does things to get me annoyed & try to mess up things & still be in control of his life.

- Now that the baby is here & we’re LIVING with them... it’s gotten even worse for me.

I hate being around them & dealing with these things, I feel miserable.. we’ve been trying to move but it’s hard since I’m a SAHM & my partner is the one working.. since baby has been born, she’s been unable to listen to my rules for MY baby. She’s kissed baby although I’ve said even BEFORE giving birth.. to not kiss baby. We let her babysit & came back to her in bed with baby, with only a diaper on bc it was “hot.”

(Open a window..? Turn down the heat..?)

, Now recently we’ve been still trying to find an apartment, which now she’s gotten the idea that she wants my fiancé & her husband (his dad.) to sign a loan together with my fiancé being co-signer in order for them to buy a house... weird how she got this idea & went to the bank for info about loan’s once we began to apartment search.. 🤨 anyways, she recently called the other day saying “where are you, when are you coming home, I don’t see the baby carrier - I can’t sleep until I see the baby carrier meaning you guys are home.”

So help me god, I’m hanging on by a string.. I don’t think I can do this much longer.

My fiancé knows I dislike her & that I’m struggling with being in this environment but it’s hard being we’re tight on money & he’s the one working for us & trying to find us an apartment.

Any advice or even comments would be welcome. 🥲 please no hate, I’m already miserable enough. 😂