Help please

So I just turned 25. Since I live in NYC and havent been out of the state or on a flight in YEARS, I asked my bf to go to Miami. He isnt working but I paid for it. I planned this trip last minute like 4 days in advance because there was norhing to do and he didnt seem like he was planning anything. Hearing me freak out and everything. He xomes on this trip after I ask him a MILLION times if hes ok with it. He says yes hes with it and seems excited. I asked him to plan activities because i wanted to be surprised. Like theres no romance! Now a day after my birthday, he says I NEVER WANTED TO COME TO THIS TRIP, i stressed him out by asking him to plan activities and i am extremely selfish. Am i wrong for just wanting some romance and surprise? Am i selfish