So my husbands mom is absolutely obsessed with my pregnancy, she’s obsessed with her son as well. he’s not an only child and she has a 1 year old baby girl so it’s not like she has baby fever . Since we announced my pregnancy, she’s constantly touching my stomach and telling me what i can and can’t eat or do!! and all of it sound absolutely crazy!! example :

1. she wouldn’t let me drink my cup of coffee

2. she took lime out of my hand and told me if i put like one my tacos my baby will have cancer

3. she told me i wasn’t allowed to eat pineapple

4. she told me if i didn’t eat what i was craving ( because i told her i don’t always do because over eating is not healthy and it hurts my stomach ) my baby was going to come out mishapen

5. she told me i wasn’t allowed to do anything physical and i had to sit in bed and eat all day

6. she wouldn’t let me drink a can of soda , so she gave me a capful and told me thats all i’m allowed to have

7. she keeps telling me what to do and what i can and can’t eat!

I absolutely love that she’s involved and excited but it’s getting way out of hand. She texts me every single day multiple times a day asking out the baby is , and i give her the same answer every day. Then she blows up my SO phone and asks the same thing, and if he doesn’t answer she will call him until he picks up, then if HE doesn’t answer , she will go right back to me. just always blowing up my phone especially while i’m at work! Not only that, his grandma does the same! and i’m scared for when the baby is here i’ll never be left alone!!! it’s so overwhelming! especially when i’m being told what i can and can’t do with MYYYY body . like it’s not your child or body it’s MINE. and i’ll do as i see fit!!