Bed sharing 😭

We bed share, my doctor said that while breastfeeding it was ok and gave us some guidelines, but then when I started working we stopped nursing and now I exclusively pump so she gets milk from a bottle and we still bed share (due to lack of space but we also love the bond) we take precautions, we have a king size bed, etc.

I joined this group on Facebook because it was supposed to help with sleeping time for our babies. Since my baby wakes up about 3-4 tines. So when they approve my I red this whole post they have about how “they are going to say it like it is and if you are bed sharing you are taking the decision to RISK your baby’s life because of convenience” and how we are selfish and they they won’t “sugar code it”

Where I came from bed sharing is so normal. But after reading that I felt so awful and I got a bassinet that was so expensive and we have tried and it doesn’t work.

Please please, tell me we are not the only ones that bed share, I felt so alone and such a horrible parent after reading that. And now I am so scared and anxious at bedtime 😭😭😭