Should we have a 3rd baby?
I have two wonderful boys, i really want to try one more time for a daughter. Im not saying i wouldnt be blessed or love it if i had a 3rd boy. I just really feel like a 3rd baby would complete our family. My husband feels indifferent, he says he could be happy either way and the desion is up to me. I dont like the desion being all me, i want to make a good one! I want to hear from experience, what you think! Family and friends seem to think 2 is enough, and i should just be happy with my two healthy boys.They think familys of equal numbers are better, and 3 would just be too much. All of the people who say this only have 2 kids so they really dont know how 3 would truely be... is it really a lot of extra work? Would i regret my desion of having 3? How much harder could it really be?? I feel financially we could afford 3, my boys are still little so im unsure how expensive they get as they get older but we are doing good financially now, and my husband has a good job with yearly raises so by the time theyre older if they do get more expensive i feel we could handle that pretty easily. We have a house and a spare room for another baby. Im a stay at home mom so i feel i can always be there to give them all the attention they coulr ever want, and we wouldnt have to worry about paying for childcare etc. Since my two boys sre so close in age they have most same interest and share a lot of things, toys / clothes ect. that would help some expenses and they would always have each other when im busy with a new baby..
I feel its right for our family, what do you think? I dont want to make the desion alone. I also feel it will be hard to tell family about baby nunber 3 as they seem to think its not the best idea and 3 is too much...
any tips, advice, support or comments about our desion would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!!
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