Failed IUI and hubby had his testicle removed same week

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I just need to come on here and vent. I am 14dpiui (first one) and BFN. At the same time we just found out my husband had a cancerous mass in his testicle and had to get it removed today. I thought maybe god would at least give us a baby with all this bad news we’ve been getting this week. But no, on top of it here we are still trying for baby #1 and dealing with testicular cancer. At an all time low, and I’m worried about how this will affect our chances moving forward 😔