Queefing during sex

Hello ladies, so I have a question for all of you. Is there a way to not queef during sex and if not...how do I get myself to be comfortable with doing it during sex? Every time we have sex and I move, I try so hard to hold it in to spare myself the embarrassment and awkwardness if it happens but sometimes it slips out and he chuckles a bit on occasion. Is this normal whenever we have sex if so, can we please normalize this cause no one talks about it for me to gain comfort in having it slip out