It’s a long story but I met my match after being with douche bags for many many years well we started out as friends first ,than we became bffs than I started to have more feelings for him. Him since the beginning already had feelings for me. Well we decided before we became girl friend and boyfriend I would move in with him . I did . We slept in separate bedrooms because well we werent together and his daughter that was 9 was here for the weekends . Well he’s a truck driver and in the guard so he’s never home . In June her mother tried to commit suicide and cps was involved and she moved in with us full time. I’m no longer working and taking care of her full time . I don’t have any children of my own but I take care of her as my own . I go over and beyond for her more than her mother did but its been 7 months and she gives me attitude and that’s not like her but she just turned 11 but I’m doing this all on my own. When I call him and tell she’s misbehaving he talks to her and straightens her out and tells her no ma’am thats disrespectful . I have his support but I feel since he’s not home for working two jobs its just me and it’s hard he doesn’t understand what I go thru mentally. I went from single partying traveling to relationship that we didn’t get to enjoy which is not her fault that her mom did that . I love my baby and she’s definitely my daughter now it’s just hard. I’ve been doing this I’m going to keep doing it. I just wish he was home every day . I signed her up last year for softball of course I take her but now it’s starting a new one they want me to sign her up again and I don’t want to with her not doing her chores and misbehaving and out of control . What do I do? Please help. Sorry its so long !