bit of a weird one, bare with me

so i like this boy, but im scared to like pursue anything with him because from what i can tell he's very much not a sexual person and my love language is like intimate touch but his doesn't seem to be. im a hypersexual person and have many a kink, but he seems kind of grossed out by the thought of playful sex. obviously this wouldn't stop me from wanting to be with him, and i wouldn't mind if sex wasn't something he really wanted but idk it seems like such a silly thing to be worried about but i cant get passed it. he's a really lovely guy, pretty sure he knows that i like him because he teases me about it as a joke but yeah think he knows. we get on really well and have been talking quite a lot, he's a great mate to have and just a very sweet person. it's just the sex thing. idk. not like we'd be having it because 1. it would be long distance and 2. deadly pandemic (the pandemic comes first obviously but point wise). idk. am i being selfish? i don't think he would want to be with me anyway. it feels selfish to think like that because i really do like him but idk.

we're dating :)) wasn't too big of a deal, like him too much to be affected that's heavily by it. thanks for the advice tho ladies