I’m starting to hate being a mom

My son is 3 he’s terrible he chewed the ac cord to my apartment he colored the walls he’s 3 and he still plays in his poop as soon as he wakes up he makes these weird noises and screams and kicks the wall to the neighbors apartment we already got two nose complaints we’re gonna get kicked out no family’s gonna let him stay there he’s hyper active and bad he’s been in speech therapy for 2 years and we’re getting no where and doctors aren’t saying anything is it something I’m doing because my other two kids are perfectly fine