Venting

Katherine

I don’t have anyone to talk about this too. My girlfriends are all friends with my husband and that would just be weird. They also don’t have kids so just don’t get it....

We have two kids. A 3 year old and a 1.5 year old, both girls. My husband definitely wanted a boy. I am currently pregnant with our third girl (32 weeks). My 3 year old is definitely starting to hit her bratty phase. Spoiled... doesn’t listen. Has been rude to our nanny. Super Whiney. Throws temper tantrums constantly when it’s not her way.

My husband likes to blame all the women in her life (our nanny and myself) for her behavior. Thinks we just let it happen and let her just do what she wants. I am doing the best I can.. I’m sure I complain a lot especially being pregnant and probally am not the best example....

But he was very angry today and screaming at the girls to shut up when they were crying because it was time to leave the park. He says he will never take them to do anything again till they are older and not so spoiled. I try to explain she is 3. Claims he rather go work then hang out with a bunch of girls because we just make him miserable because all we do is complain.

Obviously, my hormones are all over the place so I’m upset... so it’s even hard to communicate because I’m just wrong and complaining.... which I’m sure I’m guilty of too... but I’m just frustrated and looking for other people who have husbands that may act similarly... He has been so impatient with the girls and myself the past couple months. Makes me feel like we are making him miserable.