I’m nervous. I know we all are - but I’m so tempted to keep my positive a secret from everyone. I know I shouldn’t - I need to tell my husband so that he can enjoy every moment with me. But I just want to keep it tucked away for a while so that if something happens he doesn’t have to go through it again. It was so hard for him. It was hard for me too, but I’ve got more experience with coping with traumatic events. He wound up in a deep depression for months and is only just starting to be normal again. Is it bad for me to wait? I’m thinking about announcing to him on Valentine’s Day so I don’t keep it a secret for too long but idk if I’m being selfish.