Dear ladies first I would like to say that I’m so sorry for your loss if you’ve experienced a chemical pregnancy, an early miscarriage, a stillborn or even a miscarriage. Many women will never understand your hurt pain, loss, dark place etc and family, husbands, wives, boyfriends, fiancé’s, friends etc will either. This is a tragic loss, pain, hurt and many women blame themselves all the time for experiencing this as well too. But what I want to say to the women that have gone thru this including myself it isn’t YOUR FAULT this I do know!!!!! Also I want to say give yourself time to grieve, your body time to heal before wanting to try again because I promise you going thru that heartache again is even more painful! We all be so eager to start back TTC as soon the doctor give us the go to do so. So many things we don’t have control over it and miscarriage, stillborn, chemical pregnancy are those things that’s gone happen to us women more than we know. As I’ve been telling myself after 2 miscarriages that I’ve finally realized that I have no control on when I’m going to get pregnant and stop stressing over not being pregnant as well too because I know we all serve an awesome God and I promise you when that time is right we all will be blessed with baby,or babies this I do know. Yes them losses will never be forgotten either! Just give yourself time to heal over that tragic loss as well as your body too. Remember you’re NOT ALONE in this journey anymore someone else is going thru what we all have been thru but afraid to talk about it. I’m sending a virtual hug, love, prayers and baby dust to you all for 2021