My boyfriemd, the father of my two kids has been taking practice tests on the laptop to enter our citys law enforcement team. When he does so, he completely blocks everything out. I understand he is busy, so i try to put up with our two kids alone (2 year old and 6 month old). We're still under quarantine and both arent working at the moment. Our boss (we are restaurant workers) asked me to complete my MAST course to renew my license to serve alcohol once we open back up and it is 3 hours long. I've been splitting up the times to work on it while tending to the kids. We put out toddler down, and 6 month old was still up but visibly tired. I told my boyfriend i was going to work on my MAST course online and asked if he could watch the kids. He said "really?" I told him yes, i need to get this done and send it to ___ (our boss). He had a visible attitude, and i started yelling. I asked why he could work on his test in peace, but when i ask to work on a test, why he gets an attitude. I told him it wasnt fair and that he should help me out. Then he went on about how hes going to be the one providing for the family and that im just taking this test just because. First of all, what? What does that have to do with anything? I yelled "im just asking you to fucking watch him, why is that so hard. You act like its so damn hard to fucking help me out and watch the kids while im doing this test." I feel like he gets entitled and feels like he doesnt have to watch the kids because hes trying to start his career. That does not mean you cant be a dad and be there for your kids. I didnt even want to add all that stuff while i was yelling because i know for a fact he would have said "who are you going to ask for help when im gone at work." Thats not the point. The point is you are here, im asking for help. Why is that something to argue about. I got so fucking mad. Seriously if he is successful and passes the course to get into law enforcement (which i hope he does. I would be so happy for him), i dont want to be with someone who feels entitled not to look after the kids and be a dad just because he has a big boy job.