Soo my bf that’s not my bf keeps saying he wants to go really big for valentines day and do something really romantic. I’m assuming it’s to make us official, since he keeps talking about that. I have ideas of what he wants and I wanted to spend around $300 on him.

Something in me is really nervous that it won’t be what I’m expecting though. Should I go for a smaller gift? Should I wait until after his gift to give his?

I’ve never known someone to be that generous, genuine, or honest so part of me is expecting something malicious. I like him a lot I’m just afraid he doesn’t feel the same way I guess or maybe he’s stringing me along. How do I get rid of this feeling or test it?

Edit: I only want to spend a good amount of money bc he keeps saying he wants to make it big. If he spoils me I want to get him what I know he wants like shoes. We’re not together officially though but I’m assuming he’s going to ask me out on vday

Another one: idk how to rephrase but I don’t feel obligated to give him anything. I know what he wants and I really want to buy it. I just don’t want to be taken advantage of

Lmao again: The only reason it would be so much is because I know there’s one pair of shoes I know he really wanted. Spending money is one of my favorite ways to show affection. My problem is the anxiety. This is my first valentines in yearss so I’m excited but also petrified lol