Would it bother you if your fiancé was always commenting and hearting another girl’s social media posts....when it was someone he wanted to date at one point? (We all went to college together).

Or am I being insecure/overthinking things?

I also may be insecure because they have very similar political views and I tend to challenge his beliefs (we’re both Independent, I lean slightly left).

He lives in a small town getting his life together and I am in grad school. She’s off starting a glamorous career in politics and PR. I think that may also be what attracts him.