Did anyone have a traumatic birth

I was sleeping had a flash back where I was in recovery and they had to do a butterfly blood test but the nurse didn't know how and blood shot out from the site got all over the gown the bed my face hair skin and they poking me and didn't know anything another nurse came in did everything.

I asked for change bed sheets, change gown, a shower bench because I couldn't stand up had complications surgery. It was hours later still waiting an obgyn told me if I needed anything to contact him and I requested him he shows up huffing puffing asks me why I made him walk all the way here where its postpartum he flashes his ring says he's married, I told him that I've been covered in my blood for hours, haven't taken a shower in days would like a shower bench if possible he yells at a nurse to get everything tells them how complicated is it to get a shower bench in here asap and called a janitor mop floor, change sheets.

The obgyn tells the nurse that I'm all anxious hysterical that they should call psychologist he left all angry just cause he had to walk from delivery to postpartum and there were no patients I had nurse check before she called him.

I just can't believe it after I give birth have a csection am having a fever with infection that he would assume I called him to pick him up or something that he flashes his ring says he married why did I call him unbelievable.

Any of you deal with doctors nurses that stressed you out