Hey guys, I guess I’m just looking for some advice idk. I recently found out I am pregnant with my second baby and my first just turned one. So there will be about 21 months between them in age. It was a surprise but we did want another child, we were just planning on waiting a few more months before TTC. But my emotions are just all over the place and I don’t really want to tell anyone I’m pregnant. Everyone I’ve told so far has made jokes about it being an “accident” without me even saying or implying that it was. I told my boss and her first words were “oh no.” It’s making me feel like I should be ashamed/embarrassed for this pregnancy when I’m already struggling to wrap my mind around raising 2 under 2. If you went through this, how did you get over these emotions? I want to be happy and excited for this pregnancy too, especially since it could be my last.