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When I was a child my best friends uncle (she called him his uncle but I’m not sure if he really was) sexually assaulted me. She basically led me into the room with him and let him and kept telling me to kiss him to make him stop. He was sexually assaulting her too so I don’t blame her, she was a victim too. The thing is, I didn’t know it was sexual assault until years later, and now that it’s really getting to me I find myself wanting to contact her. It’s something I think would help me but I don’t want to bring up any memories that she has tried hard to forget. I don’t know what to do. Advice? I haven’t spoken to her in years.