‼️‼️‼️Someone plz read!🔴🔴
I need to know if I’m in the wrong here.
I’m 25 years old still live at home with my mom and step dad. I have 2 sisters and one brother tht lives with me.
One sister is 14 the other is 21.
I recently found out I was pregnant and very happy about it. I obviously wanted to tell people after 12 weeks. But I told my sisters anyway because I couldn’t contain myself and new they could keep a secret.
Also I’m moving out to my own place in a month.
Anyways today I get a letter from OBGYN office and my mother sees the mail. She assumes tht I’m pregnant and starts asking my sisters. They both play dumb. And played it off as me having a polyp procedure because I had one in the past and had to deal with an obgyn.
So I read my mail and it’s about my pregnancy and what to expect and upcoming appointments. So I leave the house to go the store.
Well wen I leave my sister (14) texts me saying my mom is goin through my room trying to find my mail. Well she ends up finding it. After I purposely hid it.And sees that I’m preg. She immediately tells my little sister and proceeds to tell me other sister.
My other sister gets rly mad and says tht wat she did was wrong.
At this point my mom knows I know what she did. N she doesn’t apologize.
I was very upset and told her that she invaded my privacy n she took it upon herself to find out. I had a whole plan how I wanted to tell my family and I feel like she took that from me.
She believes she did nothing wrong. She says tht it’s her house, it’s her address, where my mail was going.
She blames my little sister for snitching and puts all this on her.
Wel when my step dad gets home my mom tells him as well.
My little sister told me . So I txt her n said “I’d appreciate if you didn’t tell anyone else because I want to tell my brother and other family me members”. She has the nerve to say “it’s not my news to tell”
Am I crazy?????? She hurt me by taking how I wanted to tel her away from me.she hurt me by not taking responsibility for her actions. By saying she did nothing wrong????
Am I seriously crazy????? I dnt understand how she can only see her point of view. She says I’m being negative about the situation yet she goes and tells my stepdad? Then proceeds to say it’s not her news to tell???? I had a special way to tell everyone and she’s ruined it and I can’t help but feel enraged. Because she shows no remorse for her actions. Yet she plays the victim like we’re ganging up on her but fails to see how she’s made me feel.
Someone plz tell me there point cuz I’m so lost
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