Around November 2020, I met this guy on tinder. We started talking and such but didn’t meet up until New Years. I ended 2020 with him, and started 2021 with him. Let’s just say, he was my New Years kiss. After that kiss , he told me he deleted tinder , and sent screen recording of him deleting the app. Then I deleted the account then deleted the app as well.

We’ve been hanging out more , and doing the deed. Basically doing relationship stuff, just not calling each other “girlfriend” or “boyfriend”. Not sure why.

Then 2 days ago, I went to visit my parents, which is 5hrs away. Not even 24 hours of being away, my friends sent me a screenshot of him being back on tinder.

Me being me, I confronted him bc I genuinely thought we had something good going on. He then told me he was trying to find me on there just to see if I’m trustworthy. I get he has trust issues bc of failed relationships, but this literally fed onto my trust issues .. I attached a screenshot..

can someone give me advice ? Is it worth it?