Time for a mini venting session

I'm 25 and he is 24

We have a kid otw but things took a turn for the worst ex ending up calling the cops lying to them saying I hit him n I was hauled off to jail 😑 smh with a no contact order he is slandering my name and posting my mug shot on his fb page smh Idk if its cuz we are a interracial couple and cops hate black ppl but man has his crazy ass put me thur it even worse when your own family tell you to work it out with him what has the world come to any advice ? Divorce is already in the works but its 10x harder with a kid