So I’m new to sex i lost my virginity almost two years ago and only had sex with my ex and my recent ex last year. Both times condoms were used. This one guy I’m talking to doesn’t prefer condoms.. I’m against not using them unless there’s a ring on my finger. I’m afraid of stds and getting pregnant not married. I know couples who don’t use them. I respect their decision. I’m just old fashioned when it comes to that. And it’s a safety thing for myself. He said he would use them with me. I just don’t trust not using them unless the guy were to get tested. I have anxiety and depression with a lot of things. I’m on the pill but it’s not 100%. So I always use condoms. And it’s been since my recent ex since i had sex and this guy is 7.5 inches.. and everytime i have sex it’s like a virgin. I have lube. And he’ll

Have to go gentle with me. Please no negative comments. Just wanted to vent.