Am i Wrong?

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I’ve been in a funk for the past couple of days, stressed and overwhelming feeling of depression. Also, I’m 25 weeks pregnant.

I told my husband that I feel unhappy and depressed last night and this morning I explained that my hormones feel out of wack.

I decided to try and get out of my funk... showered and got dressed to feel better... he asked if I wanted to get food and I said yes,..

So I’m ready to go and starting to feel a bit better and one of my friends FT me to tell me she was downtown and ran into my brother. They wanted to say hi... I answered and try to sound better... after I get off FT with them, my husbands mood changed...

I kept asking what was wrong and finally he tells me that he hears me being all in a good mood on the phone and this whole time he’s thinking he did something wrong when I’ve been communicating how I’ve been feeling to him...

So he’s mad at me.

I don’t think that’s fair bc I’ve been working my way out of a funk. He sounds bitter that I was talking to my friend for literally about 3 minutes. Not to mention, she asked if I was ok bc she thought I didn’t sound well...

I just feel like giving up some days. Even when I try there’s always something...

I feel so alone and misunderstood.

When I was explaining that i told him why I think I’m in a funk, and I’m trying to make myself feel better all while being in his presence. Idk what I’m supposed to do or what else to say to him bc I feel like that was unfair for him to think I should sound just as down with everyone else as I do with him. I don’t want anyone else to know if depressed. Not even him, but in a marriage I have to be vulnerable.... so I thought.

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