I left my children’s father after years of abuse(about 5/6 years ago). I allowed my children to keep contact and visit him. He left without telling to his home country about a year after we spilt and eventually came back. This hurt the kids. He came

Back and I allowed the kids to continue to talk and see him. He was back for about 1.5 years before this time he at least told the kids he was leaving. Fast forward... he’s been gone to Florida for about three years now. Barely calls the kids and gets upset with the kids if they don’t call him. My 8 year old son has no interest in talking to him and never talks about him. ( he just started counsling as he never talked about it and it’s hard for him to talk about) my daughter still thinks he’s a good father. I don’t say anything bad but it’s so hurts to see this man do nothing for his kids. He barely sends money. The man I am with now helps support them. Takes care of them and loves them.

My question is, is it wrong I just want to tell him off and just tell him to let his kids go?

I wouldn’t do it but I just so badly want to delete and block his number from my daughters phone so he can’t talk to her anymore( my son doesn’t talk to him)

He has no idea how much he messed up.