So I know that you're supposed to wait until your 6-8 week appointment or until your doctor's approval to have sex. I did not have vaginal intercourse, but I did kinda give in and ended up having anal sex. I'm almost 4 weeks pp so I'm just hoping that someone else has done it or that it'll be okay? We made sure it was very cleanly and made sure no hemorrhoids and to avoid being too rough to prevent fissures or any other peri-tearing. Did I mess up?