Hi! We have been TTC for about 9/10 months now. My husband and I were thinking about getting massages for Valentine’s Day but I started to get nervous about it. If we do conceive this cycle, I would be about 4 weeks on Valentine’s Day. I was reading that massages in the first trimester could increase chance of miscarriage.

I’m struggling with this because I don’t want to put my life off and miss out on things by planning for something that could not happen :( anyone else struggle with the “might be” thoughts every month?

Should I book the couples massage or skip it and find something else to do??