Does your husband help you feel better about yourself?

I am asking the question in the title because I am curious to know what other marriages go through/look like. I know that no marriage is the same but what I am going through just doesn’t feel normal. My husband doesn’t help me feel beautiful. Instead, he calls me insecure. Half of me feels like it isn’t my husband’s job to make me feel beautiful but the other half of me feels that while it isn’t his job, he should still help make me feel beautiful. 😪