My husband has epilepsy, has been pretty controlled the past 7 years. No episodes or seizures until recently.

6 weeks ago he has a partial in the kitchen. He zoned out for about 5 seconds and dropped olive oil. Friday he had a drop seizure at work. Dropped and passed out for about 10 seconds and then was totally fine.

We are in the process of shutting our business down due to covid, today on his way home from work he was so stressed out he had 2 shots and a beer. He knew I would be furious if he drank given his drop seizure on Friday.

He thinks it happened due to stress. Could be? But I am SO furious he drank I kicked him out of bed. I cant even talk to him right now. He says "I dont care, I'm so stressed. I dont care if I have a seizure." Blah, blah.

I keep telling him, who cares about our business if he isnt around? His health is first for our family and our 2 toddlers.

How do I get through? Am i overreacting? I'm seeing red. I'm just as stressed as he is. It was my business I started 8 years ago. It's my identity, but still our health and family comes first. Need advice, I am so sick of his pity sh*t and him "not caring" about himself.