So the father of my youngest and I have been together for 3 years. He is a mommas boy, he’s even told me that if I cant figure out how to get along with her he’s leaving me. But she calls n texts him constantly. We were about to sign on a house like down to the last details and she found one she liked better for him. She denied my son until he was 9 months old and convinced him that he wasn’t his until we got DNA test. He works out of state... been gone besides the two holidays since august. She texts me and says “it’s be nice to see y’all” every weekend and EXPECTS me to drive 20 mins out of my way to go to her. She works here n town and drives past my houss every day. Also I’m in nursing school, working, and have 2 kids. He told me when he came home for thanksgiving that I was a selfish bitch for wanting him to stay home and spend time with me and the kids or take us to do something. When he only had a one week break and wasn’t going to waste it just sitting at the house. So he maybe spent 2 days with us through your the week. He constantly accuses me of cheating. He gets mad when my mom comes to keep the kids for a little while during the weekend so I can study because he thinks I’m cheating. I feel like he just wants me to be stuck at home with two kids answered go anywhere. We tried counseling but then he made a big deal out of it costing too much. He questions me about any money I spend since I started making him help with bills. But he makes $50/hr 7 days a week 12 hours days. And yet me and my kids are on a tight budget while he buys guns left and right and new movies and games and stuff for his truck. Like am I being bitter? Or would y’all be upset? I’ve send random compliments, sexy texts and snaps and stuff trying to keep the relationship ship alive. But then all he says is he didn’t ask for it. And still snaps at me constantly. He’s told me he dreads calling to tell me good night cause he knows imma piss him off somehow. When he gets mad he hangs up on me rejects my calls or outfight ignores them. But if I did. The hes have his whole family showing up and still call me a whore. He has no respect for the fact that I’m basically a single mom of 2 nursing student and working. I think the saddest thing in the world... is to love someone who is so selfish they don’t love you. He is very immature dude to his mom. He literally has to find someone to blame for every fight. I constantly tell him it doesn’t matter whose fault if WE have a problem then WE have to fix it. When we fight he constantly tries to hurt my feelings. His mom wants me to ween my son so she constantly brings it up. Also he now says that I purposefully made my son breastfeed so nobody else could have him?? Like my son goes to day care and they handle him just fine. When my son was getting two bottles a day for medicine he never fed him one single bottle. My sons 2 year old sister fed him bottles while his dad wouldn’t but somehow I’m a terrible mother for breastfeeding My sons ans them denying him so they weren’t around so it’s my fault they don’t have a relationship. I’m scared to have to share custody I want mg son to have a dad but his dad is quick to get annoyed if my son starts crying his dad leaves immediately and I just don’t know which option is better at this point. He constantly tells me I can not make it without him no matter what and nobody else will want me n two kids