I know not everyone is going to feel the same way I do about this, but please give me your opinions.

I have a close friend who had a baby a few weeks before me. I gifted her baby a $75 gift card plus a handmade gift I was planning on keeping for my baby when I made it. I gave it to her because she was sad her family wasn’t throwing her a baby shower since she didn’t tell anyone in her family she was pregnant until she was about 7 months along.

After I had my baby I felt like she disappeared a little but I took it as her being a busy mommy of 2. But when she needed a favor or for me to check on something for her related to my job. When she would ask for stuff from me she would throw in “oh I’m about to order your baby’s gift right now” and well still nothing now.

Y’all, sometimes I can’t get a text back from her for weeks until she needs something.

Well the other day she finally text me back after 2 weeks when I asked her how she was doing to ask if I would give her all the clothes that don’t fit my baby. (My baby is younger but bigger). I don’t feel like I should give her a few hundreds dollars worth of clothes when she can’t even give my baby a little something or ask how she is.

I have been thinking to distance myself a bit like she does and see where it goes from there.

At times I think I am overreacting but then I feel I am right to feel this way. How would you feel if this was your situation?