So my son is 13 weeks old, his father left us when I was 31 weeks pregnant and does not want to be in his life at all but that’s another story, I started seeing someone who I’ve known my entire life when I was 6 weeks PP, he is very keen to be in my sons life and we get along great, he’s only met him once, I wait until my son is with his grandma (she takes him for one evening per week) to see him so we can get to know each other romantically too. My problem is I obviously haven’t had sex since I had my baby, I had an emergency c section and I’m so worried about pain but not sure how to bring it up. We flirty talk a lot and i know it’s going to happen soon but I’m so anxious about how it’ll feel and how rough he will be. Is there any advice? How do I approach this? Has anyone had sex after c section how did it feel?