Need help/advice

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So my daughter behavior is yo yo. She never seems to listen, unless she gets something out it most times.. We have legit done everything to get her to listen and break bad habits. She'll be good maybe half the day or every other day. Ends being good maybe two days a week.

She is no longer seeing grandma (my mom) now. My mom is a bad influence and main reason for all the bad habits. Lived with her since I had her until a couple months ago. My mom won't let me parent or respect me as a mom. Told me I'm a bad mom for telling my kid no a few times. Never cared when my kid would repeat it to me. She'll act out before leaving and can take a week once she gets home to behave a little better.

Is any creative things that has helped with bad habits/behaviors? She great for others that isn't my mom. We just so mentally drained with how she is at home. We are at our breaking points for the most part.

Might try getting her into therapy but unsure if able to money wise if her health insurance don't cover it.