As a person that knows I should always seek Gods for advice I feel at lost with this issue ..

My mother in law has never like me since day one.

My husband now for 12 years has been his family back bone bc his dad was never the one to step up . So my husband basically raise his siblings and work for the household .

So when we got together his mom did not like at all .

Long story short we got marry and I sponsor him for citizenship then he sponsor his parents for citizenship .

Then he started cheating on me and hitting me and when i decided to leave him I was pregnant . His mom use to advise him that they came first and then me and my son . The fights were always about putting me and my son as a priority .

In my little relation with God when I left him I pray to God for him ( meanwhile he started dating someone else ) .

One day I caught him and I was done with him .

He ask for another chance and I told him only if he would get closer to God .

His mom was upset we went back together and we move an hour away .

His dad was upset bc he stop giving money to them and now he had to step up .

Now in current time we have this issue bc his parents saw how he mark boundaries for over two years .

There making there way back into our life’s and every so often her mom makes rude remarks . We got a new car and she didn’t like that , we had our son in a lot of sports and his dad was not supportive of that .

I hate having them over bc I know her mom intentions is for my husband to go back and listen to her .

He falls weak every so often bc the only way they would show him love is if he gives them . I guess he needs to feel him being love by them .

On the other hand my family has never cross any boundaries and love him regardless of what he did and they treat us as a team , they support us and motivate us to be better .

He feels envy at times and refrains me from talking to my dad since supposedly I don’t let him talk to his mom but Every time his mom calls or they talk on the phone she starts manipulating him .

He wants me to stop being nice to my family since he can’t be the same way to his ....

I don’t know what to do . I feel he doesn’t care what I feel when am around his family . He always tells me to ignore it and move along .